Why do I [25F] keep getting ghosted?

TL;DR I keep getting ghosted by men no matter what I do

So I've posted this elsewhere, but I need other people's opinions on this.

It doesn't matter what I do, I always get ghosted after days, weeks, months or even years. I've not been in a relationship since early 2014 when I broke up with my (now ex) boyfriend because my friends said that we were spending too much time together, but that's another story. And before anyone asks no I'm not still hung up on him, it was years ago and he and I have well and truly moved on by now.

I've been reading books on men, articles on the internet, watching youtube videos, taking advice from friends and all that stuff. I've used all the dating apps going both paid and free ones, and still, I cannot find someone decent who won't ghost me. I've used or had an account on that many dating apps I can't even list them all. Yes, I do have other hobbies, I work, I'm also looking for a new job and spend time with family (and friends but with the current situation I can't be with friends obviously). It's not like I'm a boring person, I have all sorts of things to talk about with people.

I know in these times we can't really date, but I have the time available to me to do virtual video dates, phone calls, I can text or message all day, but still, I have no luck. What am I doing wrong? Is it me? Is it them? It's driving me crazy as everyone I know has been in relationships forever and I'm sitting there like a turnip third-wheeling all the time.