Why Do some people unmatch after few exchanges ? ghosting is terrible

I have been in this online dating for a quite some time and I feel like it depends on people themselves , but one thing I hate is when someone who have started talking to either unmatches or completely stop replying . Listen I know if you rush things too fast people can be uncomfortable or if you make stupid jokes or act weird they can be turned off but why do some unmatch you after few interesting exchanges ? For example I was on hinge and I matched with this girl and she started the conversation immediately . We went for two days talking,our convo was really simple just to start something . She asked me about my dog and we talked about our pets ( she has a cat ) , and animals in general , then I noticed that she had a picture with an horse and I asked if that’s hers . Than after she answered I asked her how often she rides her horse and she never replied and unmatched me . I really don’t understand why , she sounded funny and interesting ( well she told me that she is weird so maybe that’s why who knows ) and I really liked our start even if it was the beginning , it kinda really moved me a little bit . I understand if you match with someone and then unmatch without starting a conversation ( maybe after seeing other pics you didn’t like this personally ) , but after you start the conversation and we talk for a few days you unmatch without any real reason , maybe she lost interests but really how can you unmatch someone after just few simple exchanges ? Anyone else experienced the same outcome?

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