Why has no one ever loved me back?
If you’ve been unlucky in love countless times you’ve probably asked yourself this question. You can attract the right men, your type and the ones that you really like but unfortunately you just can’t keep them, so whats going on? Why are you still single?
Like everything in life, love and relationships needs to follow a system and a strategy. Think about it, if you ever wanted to succeed in your career or even achieve a particular career you needed to follow a particular system and procedure for it to happen. If you wanted to become a doctor you would have to go to school, achieve certain grades and then do further study to qualify. The same applies to love. If you want to achieve success in love you need to apply the correct strategy, to attract and keep a man.
So what is this strategy? The first thing you must do is to work on yourself confidence and self-love. Only when you are in love with yourself and happy with yourself can you expect a man to fall in love with you! This is the foundation of being in any successful relationship.
Second, instead of following your heart, follow your logic. Date multiple men (not sleep with just date!) and find out which one is up to your standards and meets you criteria. That reminds me, have standards not just criteria! Standards are what you expect from a man and criteria is what you prefer in a man. The latter is flexible the former should never be.
Next once you have selected your man, let him trap you in a relationship by asking you to be his girlfriend. During this entire courtship process you must maintain your emotional control, not chase him, not wear your heart on a sleeve and not try to control or nag him. This is where the self love, confidence and also discipline comes in!
After you are both in a relationship, it doesn’t mean you think ok now hes mine I can start behaving however I want, NO you must maintain the standards and behaviour you had before the relationship in the relationship. If you change so will he and his attraction for you.
So this ladies is a brief explanation on how to attract and keep a man! If you want more information please watch my Youtube videos and also join my VIP groups!
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