This guy I'm seeing gives me fuckboy vibes. He has been with around 200 women sexually and told me he wants nothing serious. Fair enough. I'm open to casual sex and won't try to change his mind at all.
However despite constant sexting, he has also told me he waits for sex. He said he needs to get comfortable with me first and he said he will wait until around 3rd/4th date for sex. He made this very clear and I can't help but feel confused. It seems like his actions (waiting for sex) are very inconsistent with his words (saying he wants nothing serious).
EDIT: Following your responses which seems to agree that he needs emotional connection and that this does not contradict him not wanting anything serious, I have a new question. You guys said that a guy like this only gains sexual attraction once forming an emotional connection..
Since he sexts me a lot, saying everything he wants to do to me and so on, (once he said he only sexted 5/6 girls and he doesn't like sexting but I trigger that in him), does that mean I have passed his 'emotional connection test'? Otherwise…it wouldn't make sense to talk dirty to a girl you're not attracted to no? Or does he still sext to try and build a connection in that way? If so to me this makes no sense at all. That would be a sexual connection not an emotional one.
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