Women seem to not be attracted to me.

Brief intro; I’m 6ft 5, 23, I hit the gym almost everyday so I’m moderately built. Considered intelligent and mature by my peers. People generally consider me good looking and attractive.

I just can’t seem to get it with girls, everyone I’ve ever dated ended up losing interest or the girls I try to hit up typically seem uninterested, now I grew up really overweight and only recently got my life together with work, school and fitness so living 20-21 years of my life as really overweight and kinda bad academically makes me have a super low opinion of myself. Do you think it’s a lack of money or do I intimidate women or I’m just too insecure? It might not help that I’m not that into things that people my age are usually into like cars, music, sports. The things I do like are kinda given a bad rap such as anime or heavy metal and it’s usually hard to find women that don’t just brush me off or ignore me despite many of my female friends describing me as “attractive” so I’m pretty sure it might be my approach that I’m messing up. It probably doesn’t help that I’m so insecure that I’ll usually stalk a girl on social media and never ever talk to her irl