I 24 F was chatting with 27 M on a dating app. We seemed to get on well and I gave him my number.
I went on the app because I wanted to hook up. We talked for about two weeks and one day we started sexting.I made my position clear and he said it was fine. Prior to us sexting, the second I gave him my number he asked me out. Since this was the start of lockdown I told him it wasn’t a good idea and suggested we FT.
As we started sexting I suggested we FT since we couldn’t meet . When time to FT came he moved it saying he had some unexpected work thing. This didn’t bother me as he rescheduled.
The reschedule date came up and nothing from him all day. Then I messaged him and he said he wasn’t a catch fish and suggested we cool things off until lock down ends. At this point it was clear he was a FB and a waste of my time and I wasn’t going to let him dangle some carrot over me. I simply suggested we just never get int ouch again because it seemed like that’s what he wanted. One month goes by and he sends me a message. I don’t reposed because I just feel this is just sad. Another week goes by and I see he swiped on me again!! At that point I am pissed and I call him out.
I said “ It’s very childish for you to pretend to be interested in me and then start moving mad as soon as I reciprocate interest. To make things worse you decided you didn’t want to talk only to send one line acting like you you have amnesia and then go and like my profile again”
In response he gave me absolutely nothing!! No accountability just the bare fucking minimum.
He said “ I wanted to try again or at least end things on a better note”
What irritates me is that this was his change to explain this behaviour and redeem him self. He could have apologised and I would have let it go. Guess what??? He tried to change the narrative.
He said “ it seems you aren’t interested, I just wanted to stop until lock down was over. I wish you all the best”
In response I told him he was right. I’m not interested in flaky people. IDGF how casual it is you respect people’s time. You can’t send me a pathetic line and expect me to leap in excitement. He is 27 going on 28 . His frontal lope is full developed!! Mine is about 20 days away from developing.
There’s no excuse.
I’m just so Irritated by this because even when you make it clear that you aren’t looking for a relationship with them and just want to hook up some men still find away to behave like dicks. I’m convinced they don’t want anything. Their pleasure comes from disappointing and pissing women off.
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