My last relationship was abusive and very toxic. My ex was controlling, possessive and would even physically assault me. After I broke up with him two years ago , I became picky with the men I choose but I also became very insecure and clingy at the same time. Whenever I meet a guy who is nice, loving and respectful, I will get attached fast, become obsessed, start acting annoying and drive the men away. And when the men start to pull away, I start chasing and make things even worse. I use online dating apps and I was starting to get frustrated I couldn’t find the one and It was earlier today that it hit me so hard how much I need to heal from my past trauma and until I do, I will keep struggling to form a healthy relationship. So look within and see if there is something from your past thats affecting your dating life today. Self sabotage is real.
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