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Issue with girlfriend’s looks?!?!?!?

I am an average looking young man (actually somewhat fat) who is short. Anyway, my girlfriend is very gorgeous (about 5’9, nice breasts, model looks). We started dating, because she is a sapiosexual (attracted to intelligence) and I will explain that. We worked together in a study group in college. She isn’t the smartest (although she is very organized), so I had to tutor her a lot. During a particular tutoring session, she admitted that she hadn’t had sex in several years (she said that she had only had sex once or twice before that). Then, I joked with her that “you’ll find a nice stud to have sex with eventually” and she said “Well, how about you?”. I soon realized she was serious, and I took her on a ride in my car to a secluded area and she sucked me off and we fucked.

The issue is that her looks make me very uncomfortable. We have been dating for over a year and her stunning good looks still surprise me on dates. Intelligence is my gift, but I know that if I wasn’t as intelligent, someone like her would never even consider me, much less be screwing me several times a week.

What should I do, keep dating her or find someone of average looks?

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Hair issue with girlfriend?!?!?!!?

I am a young black man, but my girlfriend is Hispanic. Anyway, I don’t like getting haircuts. I get maybe 4 or 5 a year. I like more of a “wild hair” look. I am a software engineer who works from home, but she says not having a haircut makes me look “homeless”. We live in an area with a lot of skateparks, so I skateboard and inline skate a lot, so all the sweat makes my hair look nappier.

She’s Hispanic, so I know she is accustomed to seeing all those bald/clean cut Hispanic guys. I have nappy hair (like most blacks) and I prefer it longer. I cut my hair at times, but I only cut a little bit off every few months. The clean cut look just doesn’t interest me. I don’t even like shape ups that much. Before I started dating her, I dated mostly white women, and they never were bothered about my hair. With one girlfriend, I went 6 months without getting a haircut, and she never had an issue with it. But, my current girlfriend is Hispanic and seems to have an issue with it. She even wants to cut it herself.

How do I get her to quit nagging me about a haircut?

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