/u/DeminaCross | Author

Love Me Not(A Ghosting Poem)

At all moments, you never spoken the word,

One of honesty, a truth I haven’t heard.

If drifting away from me, why didn’t you tell me?

If losing all desired feelings, why didn’t you tell me?

If you haven’t been in it for awhile, WHY DIDN’T YOU EFFIN TELL ME???

No expression of “Hey, just wanted to say. We were never gonna work out anyway…”

Peasant, is that so hard? Speaking truly from your heart?

Now I’m stuck with this self doubt,

Smh you took the coward’s way out.

Now I’m writing this poem to strangers,

Proly not the first ghosting they’ve read,

On my bed failing to convince myself,

That love(I know I’m being dramatic with this word but oh well) isn’t in fact dead.

Edit: Spacing

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I consider myself a late bloomer and waited so long to start dating due to personal reasons. But now that I’m well in my 20s, I feel the urge to start dating and get my feet in the water. But…

I’m starting to see a dating pattern as of late with the pandemic. Most of the guys I have convos with either online or through dating apps appear nice at first, add to that the chemistry starts off with an astronomical bang. But after a while, a SHORT while, they start to reveal their true intentions, with me inevitably learning of their sex fantasies, fetishes, and desire for only a sexting/roleplaying relationship.

Am I naive to want to start a relationship in the traditional sense with this pandemic as our backdrop? Is it naive to want a friendship first then allow it to grow into love? Should I just wait it out until this pandemic is over?

Redditors help me!

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