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How long is too long? (Asking for a phone number)

So I’d like to hear everyone’s thoughts.

When talking to someone on OLD/SM how long do you typically wait to ask the other person for their number? Why do you wait the length of time you do?

With me(23F), I start to lose interest after 2 weeks without being asked for my number. It feels like the other person doesn’t want to facetime/call/voicenote and aren’t looking to move from the dating app.

I have asked for numbers(I don’t wait to be asked always) and they usually give it then don’t respond .

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Am I overthinking things? (22F)

I’ve been talking to this guy (24M) on Hinge for a week now. We have quite a lot of things in common, the conversations flow well and we both ask a lot of questions about eachother ect. He’s even asked to see me once quarantine is over and we have an idea of what we’ll do when the time comes.

But I feel like he’s losing interest. I know, I know, it’s only been a week and it’s still quite early on but I can’t help but feel like this.

At first he’d respond quickly and we’d have a back and forth conversation throughout the day – now he’s still talking during the day, still holding the conversation but his replies have become longer. He takes a few hours to reply.

Normally I’d think nothing of it beyond the other person may be busy/working/socialising with others/doing hobbies ect, but I’m not too sure why I’m suddenly thinking otherwise..

I just wanted other people’s perspectives. Am I overthinking things or is this a natural progression?

Thanks.

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