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I found out something about the girl i’m seeing and i dont know what to do

Hello guys, i’m (25M) seeing this girl (23F) since the last week of april. We are seeing each other 2-3 times a week since the first time. We already had sex, cuddle together and all “couple” things.

Last friday was the birthday of my bestfriend and i invited her to go with me and she went.

Today i found out that she told the girlfriend of my bestfriend:

“Well, i just had 1 boyfriend (3 years, and i know about him and the other guys she have dated) and dated older guys (35-38). Everytime someone i’m seeing start to show that wants to be my boyfriend, i just back away/run away”

At the same time she tells me things like:

– She showed me a place that se want to go, like a hut in the middle of the forest just for two and said something like: “You really think i would call a random person to go with me? I want you to go with me”

– Once she said: “I dont want to show up to your house late and show to your parentes that i’m just another one, i dont want them to think something wrong about me”

– She said that she talked about me a couple of times of me to her parents, and even said that they dont call to her when she is with me because when she was seeing the older guys they would call almost every minute because they were worried with her

She always hold my hand in public, kisses me and shows affection. We also combined to spend a weekend together at a hotel 1 hour from my city.

Well, my question is, i dont know how to read a women mind and really dont know what to do because i’m clearly felt in love for her. She is the first person since my ex that i really liked and want to build something.

What can i do? We usually dont chat often because we both are not to much into texting but everytime i call her to hang out she accepts. She talked about me to her friends also, invited me to go hang out with her bestfriend and boyfriend when she cooks on a future day.

I’m lost and dont know what to do

TL;DR: Girl that i’m seeing is making me crazy and dont know how to act.

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When to make it official?

Hello people, how you all doing? First of all, english is not my native language, so if you see some mistakes, sorry in advance 🙂

There is this girl i’m seeing since the start of May. We have been seeing each other almost twice a week (most of times thursday/wednesday and on weekends).

We always have a great time with each other, we already had sex a couple of times and last weekend she came to my house for the first time to finish a tv series. (She didnt met my parents because they were sleeping).

But my parents already know about her and my mom always say: Are you in love? Because i know this smile (Yes, she is right haha).

She said that her parents already know about me but i didnt met yet.

So, there was this date that we went, we were already drunk and talking about relationship and she said something about: “1 month is too early to define something”, but she also asked how i asked my previous ex’s to be exclusive and i said that with everyone of them we entered on a consensus. Something like: “What do we have? I’m just seeing you” this kind of stuff. (And always was the girl that asked what we do we have)

Well, i’m not seeing anyone else and she said she is not also. I’m really feeling her and feeling like butterflies in my stomach.

We already treat each other almost as bf/gf

My question is, should i enter on a discussion about “what we have” kind of stuff (straight to the point) or should wait she to enter this discussion again?

TL;DR: Dont know how to enter the subject on being exclusive

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