Author Archive: /u/Rriff221

Have I left it to late to make a move?

(21 M) So I was messaging (mostly snapchatting) a girl for quite some time (id say 9 months. Yeah, I know thats a while 😬) pretty consistently, and I asked her out for coffee and a walk the other day and it went really well and a few days later I asked if she wanted to meet up again and at the time she said “yes I’ll let you know when I’m free as I’m working most this week etc, and ill let you know” which I thought was fine however she has pretty much stopped messaging me completely now and never let me know, sure I get the occasional response to a snapchat hear and there but nothing from her to keep a convo going.

Essentially all Im asking is have I pretty much left it to late and should I just let it go, I know I should have acted earlier but I was dealing with some pretty big confidence issues for a while which I’ve mostly gotten over, hence me asking at all.

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21 (M) And I have never had a relationship (help?)

I recently turned 21 and I have started thinking hard about how I have never had a real relationship, I have had a couple of ‘flings’ but never anything serious. I message girls I like and I have gone out to coffee with a few girls as well but nothing ever catches on and they all seem to lose interest and/or think its more casual than I intended.

It sucks because I would consider myself decent looking and I am not a socially awkward person so I certainly try and put in the effort, most of my friends (girlfriends at least) have said I would be a good boyfriend and that it’ll happen but I honestly don’t know if I can be bothered trying anymore, I try my best and have gone out of my comfort zone but I feel I would save myself time and pain by just closing shop at this point and focussing on my hobbies and UNI

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