I lurk on a few dating subs from time to time and occasionally post. I’ve noticed that dating subs can be very, very toxic places. They’re kind of a vacuum. It’s oftentimes a bunch of people, many of whom jaded, fumbling around trying to find answers, but still ending up confused. And I feel like there’s a lot of bad advice too. Idk.

Anyway I see a lot about “red flags”. Pretty common thing I see written in comments/posts. And I think it’s important to realize that each of us has what could be considered “red flags”. And don’t let a few things that someone does paint the entire picture of them. If you don’t feel interested well then that’s that I suppose. But I still think it may be worth it to give people the benefit of the doubt to a certain extent before you judge them or write them off entirely.

Just my 2¢

Lmk what you think or we can further this discussion if you wish to expound upon what I’ve written