So i got this message about as soon as i started a convo with a match on OLD. I’m generally very chill and laidback but i found this statement a bit off putting – nothing too much to fuss about but when i told my match i was offended he just went on to say im taking it too seriously.

I really wasn’t – but this statement gives me the idea he was the kind of person who needs positive vibes 24/7 and these guys most likely won’t handle issues like a grown man / run at the first sight of conflict. I mean he is saying no job is boring and everything can be made exciting by the right people. I on the other hand, believe a job can be made exciting around the right people.

Anyway we’re definitely not vibing and all i had to say to him was he was just like my brother lol. What do you guys think of this statement? Am i judging him way too soon? I’ve been through way too many matches to bother with people who can’t handle conflicts but the mere thought of me dropping this guy makes me wonder if i’m the one who can’t handle this conflict. But I think we just don’t vibe at the same frequency?