So, the last time i talked to someone off Tinder for about a month before it suddenly went downhill. I thought this guy ghosted me as he said he would talk to me in a couple days but ended up being silent a whole week and i took it real personally.

He did come back a little bit after that but even if he had a good reasoning, it didnt change the fact that i felt abandoned, and we couldn’t have a civilized discussion about what he is going through. He saw me as someone who’s constantly finding faults – i was tired of the lack of communication from him. I didn’t go around it in the best way, but he never really explained himself to me. None of these was said, we’ve done more damage than we intended and i think we both just wanted to get out of there ASAP.

Maybe he was giving me the courtesy to do it… but this time i know i’m not going to take months to heal from this so for that i still appreciated him. Anyway, i’m glad we officially ended it as opposed to ghosting each other.