There's not any one reason why I'm as introverted as I am, it's a mix of things. Anxiety, general dislike of most people, depression, etc. I DO enjoy going out with friends on occasion, but in general I spend probably 95% of my time either at home or with long-term friends, because actually forcing myself to go out and talking to new people is so emotionally and mentally draining for me. So needless to say dating isn't super easy.
Back in college it wasn't so bad, I'd meet the odd girl here and there and we'd date for a time, but since I graduated I don't really have anything forcing me to go out, and with the general decline of sites like OKC and the hookup/swipe culture that apps like tinder seem to be pushing the future of dating for people like me seems pretty damn bleak.
Any other extreme introverts out there finding any success?
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