I sort of have feelings for jake. I’m interested in him. Unfortunately jake has made it clear he ONLY wants to sleep with me. No I’m not flattered that he finds me hot, apparently. Rather it makes me feel bad actually. Bc I can’t understand how someone could so aggressively want to sleep with someone but also at the same time already decide that person is not worthy of getting to know better. I guess it makes me feel like he’s asking me to be a prostitute basically. But it makes me feel rejected and dumped in a way. Because he’s saying he wants my body but he has already decided I’m unworthy of anything else. He doesn’t even treat me the same as other girls. He doesn’t treat me like a friend. (He claims he wants us to be friends…. apparently friends who hook up and keep arms length away. ) even when I asked him why does he treat me different, he snapped at me and said He doesn’t like people who are emotionally attached.
Could you imagine if I gave in and slept with him? He’d probably tell me to leave immediately and never talk to me again. I’d feel rejected all over again.
Anyways. I have to see him all the time. Whether I see him I keep thinking about how he propositioned me but also made it abundantly clear He wants nothing more to do with me.
Maybe I have a depressive personality. But is it normal for something like this to make someone feel so bad ???
Ps. I’m not saying I’m depressed he won’t commit to me Or marry me or whatever. I’m saying he already decided it was over before anything began. He put the kibosh on anything before giving me a chance or giving it a try to see where things went. And he thought I’d go for sleeping with someone who is telling me he doesn’t like me.
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