Well just like my post title says I [M27] kinda feel tired and unmotivated about dating and dating apps specially. My last relationship finished about 3 months ago and I just recently started feeling better about being single again. However, I feel very unmotivated cause it seems like so much effort to go through both emotionally (casual dating/video calls) and financially (paying for dinner/drinks for a stranger) just to end up in another relationship where I won't know if the other person will be the one I want to spend 30 or 40 years with. Also honestly most marriages end up in divorce. How do you actually deal with the fact that no relationship lasts forever but you still have to put effort to find that person you wanna share your emotions/life with?
TL;DR: Nothing lasts forever. Why do we have to go through the effort of dating and opening up and spending money for a stranger?
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