I was actually about to head out to Orlando in A month and a half to meet this guy that I have been talking to long distance. I live in Colorado and he is in Florida.
So I have met a guy online through this app called minder ( a Muslim dating app) and we been talking for a month, and every time I bring up the idea for him to text me he would completely avoid that. Until I had bought it up recently again for the third time and I asked him why is it that every time I ask him to communicate with me via my phone rather than on Instagram he avoids my question? He completely lost it. It said that it made him feel uncomfortable for him to give me his phone number and that he would rather stay on Instagram and communicate. But I mean in my head I thought it was no different because you’re already talking to me on Instagram so what difference does it make if you hit me up through my phone number? Like I don’t pay T-Mobile for fun like I would rather have the person to text me/call me instead rather than texting me through Instagram. Like we’re not in high school anymore were adults (we are both 24)….
He told me that it Was a lot and that he was scared. So then I had responded back to him “I don’t know how to take this and I’m sorry that I make you feel uncomfortable enough for you not to give me your number” but he and I will talk on a daily basis and I literally saw nothing wrong for him to completely spazzed out on me and then block me? Has that ever happened to anybody else. Does the idea of giving your number to somebody who you’ve been talking to for a month freak you out or was he just over reacting??? He also mentioned that it was a lot to handle before blocking me but I don’t know what triggered that for him to be scared to give me his number as wild as that sounds…. I’m not a scary person or anything of that sort it’s not like I was texting him anything crazy like we were literally having a normal conversation. I just don’t really understand what went wrong so I spent the last hour of my shift crying and then continue crying in the car because I felt like why and what went wrong? Everything was going great and then I don’t know where it just went downhill because I asked him to text me or to find a happy medium to communicate since I didn’t like to text via Instagram and he didn’t want to give me his number. We follow each other on multiple social media platforms and it’s not like it’s a catfish type of thing so I just don’t understand what triggered
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