Yeah yeah yeah, I know what you are going say "happens to me too duh….guys are just hornier and more open".
But my situation is a little bit weirder.
the past decade or so, I've learned that 4-5 of my male friends were actually closet gay and ended up "falling in love" with me. from seperate friend groups. In fact, I struggle to make friends with straight guys because half the time they end up being closet gay. I always meet a new gay guy in a group, and immediately start getting eyed. or he finds me on snapchat and starts sending me nudes
"hey! congrats OP, it probably means you are attractive…what are ya complaining about?"
Well, yeah, Women don't really show the same behavior. in fact, I'm often passed up/ignored or they act just….weird around me sometimes. I've never gotten the same "crush confession" or "she likes you you know" from women that I get from guys.
I feel like a lot of men get some intertest from men and some interest from women if they hang out with both sexual orientations. I get a TON of interest from men and basically no interest from women or just weird behavoir from them.
when I asked for advice some of them said "well you look kind of young and youthful, gay guys like that but a lot of women want someone more masculine looking with facial hair/etc"
this happen to anyone else?"
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