Having a hard time building intimacy with the guy I’m dating (23F)

Hi! So I started dating a guy, with who I’ve had two FaceTime dates and two in person dates.

He is nice and intelligent, good looking enough but I somehow have a hard time warming up to him.

I don’t know why, we kissed quickly at the end of our last date but I found myself to be really « cold » and stiff.. And I don’t know why..

I don’t find myself playful or trying to brush my hand against his while we walk next to each other, I try to put myself in the mindset but I have trouble to.. It gives me a lot of anxiety for the next date because I know we’ll kiss again

And it’s not because I have too high standards honestly, for example if a guy is funny I could have a crush on him no matter the looks

Any ideas on how to warm myself up to him?

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