Obviously, there is not a spot on dating app profile that asks men to identify whether they are circumcised or not. You also probably aren't going to say, "Hey, by the way, while we're talking about what we're looking for in a partner, I thought you'd like to known I'm not circumcised." It's a sensitive subject and also one you don't want to scare someone off with too early in bringing up.
And so, it comes to this being made known at the point where the connection is broaching intimacy, and sometimes, it takes awhile to get to that point. Some women have strong preferences against uncircumcised men, though, so it's very aggravating after you've established a connection and grown to like each other where a guy's foreskin status puts an automatic stop to this.
This has happened to me a few times already, be it matches who I've talked to for weeks, only for the match to lose interest as soon as we exchanged nudes. It happened again last night when I was on a virtual date, and our call took a turn for the intimate where we showed our bodies. She said, "Oh, wait, you're uncircumcised?" and I awkwardly said, "Uh, yeah…" She ended the virtual call right there, and unmatched me without saying anything else. Her actions told the whole story.
I felt embarrassed and it's frustrating because there's no great way to go about bringing up the subject in terms of whether it's a dealbreaker or not.
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