So, I met this girl online a few months ago (you can see some of the developments in my post history). It went alright, but the conversations were a bit dry, even after we stopped talking for a while and then started talking again.
We met up for a date two days ago which was pretty alright, but then she barely texted afterwards, despite agreeing after I said that meeting her was pretty nice. So I hit her up with a message saying that if she thinks we'd meet up for a second date, and she said that she didn't know because she doesn't know how much it'll work out.
I asked her then if she sees whether it could develop or not, and she said no, and I texted her a "best of luck and it was nice knowing you" text.
The relief is because this wasn't certain at all, and being in the gray zone always pisses me off. If I hit on someone, I'd definitely want to know whether it'll work or not, and I didn't, until this point. She might've known but it wouldn't have worked out if she kept me in this uncertainty.
So I'm relieved now, and back to the dating pool!
EDIT: sorry if there are any grammar mistakes. English is not my first language, and although I do speak almost fluently when I'm focused, I wasn't this focused when I wrote this, hence the grammar mistakes. Being tired in the Anglosphere as an ESL sucks
submitted by /u/throwaway0yawaworth
[link] [comments]
