I don't think my preference is as young as I thought it was. I thought it was like 18/19. But I realize I don't prefer 18 at all. Went on a date with an 18 year old this kid was talking about prom parties and parents. But I do think I still prefer 19-22 maybe 23. I am definitely attracted to guys in their 20's. For example. When I get on my bumble and put in an age range of 18-29 I generally find a lot of men attractive and swipe accordingly. But the majority are below 25 and many are in their mid 20's too. But a few in their upper 20's. So like I widened my search and I can see some were attractive but the age neutralizes them. Like I don't feel any sexual interest. And irl it's the same way sometimes men in their early 30's you can feel a twinge of something but not much. Anyhow generally 30 year old men I don't feel that desire really. I wonder is their something hormonally different or something? Why don't I feel any desire? I can have attraction to men my age but I do feel the sexual energy is fading. I am not minded for the man being the provider thing so yes I know they're more successful usually but I am not going off that with my preference really. I kind of worry I'll end up in my 30's prefering college age guys still…. Is this the norm to prefer younger men or older?
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