Most people would describe me as a nice guy, kind, compassionate, understanding etc. It is a reputation of mine, which in many ways I am proud of, but also I think it holds me back quite a bit in the dating arena. I have had girlfriends but now I am single again. Now it is the dreaded dating time again. From my experience, I feel like I lose the interest of women because I am too "nice" translation = boring, uninteresting, not exciting enough. I am none of these things outside of my dating life and definitely not in my relationships once I manage to get one. The initial dating phase is a struggle for me, I am pretty poor at flirting and I cannot seem to portray the same person I am when I am with my friends. I guess I just struggle with my confidence and girls don't like that, rightly so. Any advice?
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