Basically had a fantastic first date with this girl – I've known her for ages, and we've been flirting on/off for years, and finally it seemed as if things clicked and we both had a great time on our "first" date. No mixed signals or anything, it was a fantastic evening.
Then, she just finished all her exams is basically off for the summer; and she's doing all the things she's neglected I suppose, seeing old friends and her family etcetera. So I haven't heard much from her since our first date, which was 10 days ago.
We agreed that we should see eachother tomorrow, but today she texts me and says "hey, I can't anyway – my friends agreed that we aren't going home (she's at a beach house with some friends) until friday, sorry!"
– but she didn't say anything about "should we see eachother friday, saturday" etc.
It doesn't really sit well with me that she wouldn't offer an alternative, especially as I've heard so little from her since our first date. The things I HAVE heard are very positive however, flirtatious and basically all good.
What's the right response from my side?
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