If I am correctly interpreting the biggest gripes of men and women in today's dating scene it's that:
- Women are tired of being misled by men who change their minds or ghost after going on several dates or having sex with a guy
- Guys are frustrated that they can't even get a date
- Women seem to think men on dating aps are dating regularly and have as many quality options as they do
- Men think women are swimming in a bottomless pool of great options, are dating thre or more guys at once, and that dating and having sex is never a problem for them
- Women are tired of men acting like fools almost instantly when messaging them because men can't carry intelligent conversations, send horny messages, send pictures of their dicks, or want to see nudes
- Men are tired of matching with women who don't reply back, barely put effort into messaging them, breadcrumb, or ghost them quickly
- Everyone wants the other side to see it from their perspective
- Nobody feels like the other side is making an effort to
- A ton of people feel hopeless about dating and it wears down their self-esteem
The question is: Taking all of this into account: what can men and women do better to get on the same page about dating?
Guys, what do you wish women would understand better?
Ladies, what do you wish guys would do a better job at?
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