I've been friend with this guy for 3 years. Few months ago, he started to talk to me about his interest. Today my FB friend shared a picture of something he's interested in, and then I liked the page so I could follow it for updates. I also like it, and I think it's interesting. Of course, I didn't tell him that I follow the page.
He also has a hobby I always wanted to have, and he provided me tips, so I finally have more time to pick up that hobby. Another day, I did send him a picture of my results.
With my ex crushes, I was never into what they like or what their hobbies were. I hoped he would have same interests and hobbies as mine. I used to be a little judgemental. For example, when I found out that he was into partying, I was disappointed and then I decided to stop liking him.
When it comes to my friend, I have more tolerance with him and I want to know him more and how that shaped who he is. I realized that I never judged him. When he talked to me about his interests and hobbies, I became interested in them. I feel like I admire him.
I don't know what that means. I don't know if anyone feels the same about someone they like.
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