Curious with anyone’s thoughts or opinions. Has anyone completely stop watching porn for your partner? Does anyone actually secretly watches porn behind your partner’s back despite promising them?
I am 27F and my BF 31M used to watch porn in the past. I caught a couple of videos on his computer and instantly I felt extremely uncomfortable and also devastated. I didn’t think I would actually mind, and how much it has affected my self esteem and trust in our relationship. I began crying a lot. We fought afterwards and I think he thought I was over reacting.
However eventually he promised me he wouldn’t touch pine anymore and he understands how I feel about this issue. My trust for him was on and off and we had our arguments whether he has lied to me etc. This went on for quite a while..
Years have past and sometimes I would ask him randomly if he still watches porn, and he said since the last incident (8-9 years ago) he has already stopped for our relationship.
Actually this issue happened many years ago, but just sometimes I still wonder in my head
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