Author Archive: /u/Dorht55

A girl I’m talking to is upset because of the way I described one girl from my past. Should I apologize even though I don’t feel like I did something wrong?

I described the girl as “very beautiful” and she is upset with that. She says that I should have called her just “beautiful”. And she feels like I’m still in awe with that girl, even though that’s not the case. I just wanted to share with her how I felt about her many years ago. It doesn’t mean I feel the same way right now. I like her very much, we’ve been on a date recently and it went well. I don’t feel like I did something wrong but I do understand how she might have felt. Should I apologize? I just want this problem gone and don’t want it to spoil the things between us. But at the same time I don’t want to be the one apologizing for everything in the future if we start dating.

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A girl agreed to go out with me but it’s in two weeks at best. Meanwhile how should I be texting with her?

A guy here with not a terrific amount of practice and experience. So I met this girl at work few months ago, we chatted a bit, flirted a bit, I asked her out, got her number, she agreed. But we are shift workers, and her shift ended yesterday, mine ends in two weeks. So my question is, how should I be texting her? I feel like if I keep flirting I’ll smother her and scare her. But otherwise the conversations are a bit dry. I’m NOT putting her on pedestal, I just don’t want to blow my chance with unnecessary neediness. But not being assertive enough is also a thing, right?

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