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I have been chatting with this 31 year old guy I met on a dating app for a few weeks and we like each other, but haven’t met yet.

When I asked him a question about sexuality, he told me that he has never had sex with a woman before and that the only relationship he has ever been on was a long distance one that lasted several years but never ended in a real life date as they lived in different countries.

He said that he has been completely focused on his career as a scientist and neglected his personal life but recently decided it was time to start looking for someone.

I have never dated a virgin before and am not sure what it would be like and how I should behave if things lead to intimacy after we meet. I am also looking for a long term partner and I wonder if a guy who has never been in a real life romantic relationship and has no experience in the matter would be able to build something together.

Input appreciated! 🙂

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I met this guy on a dating app and we have been texting back and forth for 3 weeks. We have made plans to meet in the near future, when bars/restaurants open up again. During the last few days, he has been pushing for us to sext, to talk about what we like in bed and what I want to do with him.

I ignored these attempts a couple of times before and he apologized when he noticed that I wasn’t responding to them and said that he was very horny, found me attractive and was longing for emotional and physical intimacy. He texted me late at night yesterday while I was in bed and I was really sleepy and played along with it for a few minutes before falling asleep.

He said multiple times that he was looking for emotional, intellectual as well as physical connection and not just for a hookup, but I am starting to wonder if that’s really true after this happened. It feels weird to me that he would want to sext with me before meeting me but I might be wrong. Could this lead to a serious relationship?

What do you guys think? Valuable input would be appreciated (especially if based on a true story).

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