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I wish I was dating when I was young but I had nobody.

It is first time I found someone I have strong feelings for and we are good friends. However, I have no dating experience and people said it’s better to have dating experience. I have to date few different guys and go through relationship and breakup.

No guy seemed interested in me or asked me out. When I was young, I was shy and I didn’t know it was okay to make a first move. I already graduated from college, unfortunately. Since I’m “unpopular,” I figured that I’d meet Mr. Right and it will work out.

What I haven’t realized was that I need to have dating experience. I really want to date my friend and it’s hard to explain, but will my dating inexperience affect the relationship? I hope I’ll learn from my first relationship and get experience without the need to break up.

In general, I’ve read plenty of relationship advice and listened to my friends about their relationships. I also have self awareness and I know what type of guy I like. I made some male friends, so that helped. Some flirted with me, and I listened to my gut. It often didn’t feel right but with this guy it felt so right.

If relationship requires little dating experience, I don’t want to let this guy go if I started to try dating another. What should I do?

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Is it possible to have my first relationship to be successful and marry my first boyfriend?

I am 28, and I have zero dating experience. I know a lot of people would tell me to go on dates, get to know what kind of guy I like, and etc.

Tbh, I don’t believe in that and I don’t want to go on dates with different people. I feel like I don’t need it because I know who my type is. I had some male friends, and I learned about relationship stuff from internet, my friends, and etc.

I’ve been concentrating on myself, and I got a BA degree and career. Now I’m a graduate student. I have good self-esteem and self-confidence. I have a good feeling that I’ll find a right person and we will have a healthy relationship. I know he will enjoy my company. In general, I get along well with people and I have many good relationships with many people.

I like to be friend with a guy first, and then we become best friends then fall in love. I like that idea better than going on dates with strangers from Tinder.

Many of my friends got married and children. I want to get married, so I don’t have time to go on dates with different men. I hope my first relationship will be my only relationship then we will get married when I find Mr. Right. Well, I’ve been friend with a guy for 3 years and I have feelings for him. It felt like it was fate to meet him because I have a feeling he’s ‘someone special.’

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